YOU ARE NOT , WHOYOU REALLY ARE

Aryan Ray
5 min readJun 7, 2021

Today I will be asking only one question from all of you , and the question is who you are ? Yes it is a foolish question as how it could be possible that you do not yourself , but In my point of view you really do not know yourself ,and thus the adjective of foolish gets applied to people like you , who still do not know themselves, but wait for a second , before i should move ahead , first of all answer my question . Truely write in the response section , and then come back to read the further lines ‘ok’, I know that most of you would have a common answer , and that is , you will simply tell your names , but I think that still you have understand the question , think again .Now let me answer this , how strange it is that a strange person an that is obviously me who know about you , but you did not know .YOU are the worlds famous failures and the list of the names is very large , i am just mentioning a few one ,

  1. ABRAHAM LINCOLN, 2. ALBERT EINSTEIN ,3. BEYONCE KNOWLES, 4. BILL GATES, 5. CHARLES DARWIN, 6. CHARLIE CHAPLIN ,7. CHRIS GARDNER,8. DR SEUSS, 9. COLON HARLAND SANDERS , 10 .ELVIS PRESLEY.

I am saying that you are all these people ,know i know that you all would have a question that if you are not the one who you really are , and over it i am sayin that you are all these great people , this means that i am trying to say that these people and i are the same , then why i do not have that fame , name ,and that richness ? yes your question is valid and to get your answer you have to simply follow the path which my words which are directly coming from my heart are following , and yes it is a request that please try to go deep into the meaning of these words .Because a good diver always wins , and here the diver who will go deep into the meaning of the words would receive that mirror looking into which you all would get your answer that who you are?

A girl of nine years old , she was molested by her cousin , uncle , and family friend . After years of abuse , neglect, and molestation, she ran away from home at the age of 13 years , and when she was 14 years of age , she gave birth to a premature baby , who could not survive and died shortly after birth , though she faced such hurdles in the initial stage of her life , she did not allowed herself to sit and shed down tears on her fortune , which is widely known as luck in our society ,then she did some broadcasting jobs to settle herself and hosted a morning show named “People are talking “, which fetched her a good name , it is hen when she got a chance of hosting a show called A.M Chicago , which became the highest rated talk show ever. And now she is the richest African -American Women , with a total worth of 2.9 billion. Now if i will say that all the girls and the women who are reading this is no one but the one about whom the above description is given , i know you all would be shocked , you have never faced this kind of problem in you life , and if some have tried to knock the knock the door of your life , you have not opened the door , you are not that great personaliy because either you have not faced the problem or you simply accepted your defeat , then who that girl is , that girl is simply the one who accepted all these problem being pored in her life and fight with those problem and ultimately won the game of life and she is Opera Winfrey. Girls are not weak , neither girls nor the boys no one is weak it is simply our mind who makes us weak , god has given problems in everyone life , the one who accepts it becomes great a nd those who do not accept it being called a failure , but that chance of becoming great is equal in all of our hand .

NOW about that person who is dedicated towards hi invention so deeply that , that dedication made him to tried 1000 times before finally succeeding in his invention , and for this successful invention he was awarded novel prize , we all had this opportunity , we all had that power to become that person , whose biography gets matched with what has been written above , but the truth is we have not tried even 10 times to any of the work which is needed to be done by us , but the one who really tried became successful and called as the bulb man , ‘THOMAS ALVA EDISON”, it is not so that we donot have that power to become edison , but actually what we do not have is the guts to accept the failures .

I think that now you get your answer that actually who you really are , it is not your fortune which has resulted in your pity or good condition , it is simply your habit , it is simply your hard work that you put on , on doing any work, this work ethic will decides your condition , so always work hard , to live happily and to become who you really are.

And always remember my words , that , struggle , difficulties , failures are faced by everyone , in his world no one can say that they are living struggle free life or they have not faced any failure yet, many think or many people have a myth that successful people become rich and successful because of their luck and they do not face any failure or bad times , as i said it is a myth , every individual in this world faces problem and failure , but the only difference between successful people and normal people is, that they never give up until and unless they do not achieve what they always dreamed about .people become successful when they have strength and courage to stand up after falling and move on with the same vision which hay had in their mind about their goals , As it is says “FALLING DOWN IS AN ACCIDENT BUT STAYING DOWN IS A CHOICE”, and successful never stay down they move on in order to achieve their dream and goals .

THANK YOU AND I HOPE THAT YOU ALL UNDERSTOOD THE POINT , THAT WHO YOU ARE , AND NOW WHENEVER ANY ONE WILL ASK YOU WHO YOU ARE YOUR ANSWER WILL DEFINATELY NOT MATCH WITH THE PREVIOUS ONE .

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